6. “It’s over!”
Seriously? Don’t be one of those girls who decide to break up with a
guy via text message. Have some courtesy and class to do it in person
or at the very least over the phone. This kind of news deserves to be
told in a more appropriate manner. Plus, breaking up with someone
over text can come off as, for lack of a better word, bi-t-chy. And at
the very least, if you do decide to break up with someone via text, DO
NOT make it a two worded text saying “it’s over.”
5. “Why Aren’t You Replying?!”
This comes off as SUPER clingy and somewhat creepy. Not everyone
has the time to talk to you every second of their day. Be considerate
and understand that maybe he’s just busy or isn’t in the mood to
text or talk. Nothing is more annoying that someone nagging about a
simple absence of a text. It’s also a huge turn off, considering the
fact that you seem kind of desperate. Just keep the clingy texting talk
to a minimum, and give him some space and allow yourself some
space.
4. Drunk Texts
If you’ve been under the influence, STAY AWAY FROM YOUR
PHONE. If you can’t text properly, don’t even attempt. This will
make you seem a little trashy for revealing your little party side and
you never know what you’re going to say. You could spill out some
words you will most likely regret the next day. Do yourself a favor
and do not let yourself look like an idiot. Have fun for the night and
leave the texting to the designated driver
3. Screen Shots of the Past
Sure, it can be cute and charming at times, but when you’re arguing
or with a text war with you guy, it is NOT okay to bring something
back from the past. Screen shots of texts from months ago or weeks
ago are not okay to keep a grudge on. If you’ve already had
confrontation about this stuff with your guy, then don’t bring it up
again as a way to leverage your new argument. Argue strictly what
is in the present, not what’s based on the past. Opening up new
wounds as a way of attack shouldn’t be your method. Be more
constructive and try to fix the ACTUAL problem, not the ones you’re
trying to manipulate.
2. “Is There Another Girl?”
This is another way to look clingy and somewhat crazy. Avoid it at
all cost, don’t try and pull a pity party for yourself especially if
you’re just looking to stir trouble. Plus if you do have insecurities
and concerns about there being another girl, do it in person.
Confronting them in person doesn’t allow them the time to come up
with something clever to say or to come up with a solid lie. Doing
this in person allows him to react enough for you to really know
what’s going on. But if you’re just trying to build your insecurities
with this method, trust me, it’ll come off as scary and clingy. DO
NOT DO IT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE.
1. Sarcastic Comments.
If you aren’t comfortable enough with a guy yet, try and avoid
sarcastic comments that can come off as rude. I’m not saying don’t
do it at all cost, but if a text seems a bit iffy, don’t do it. I totally
get it if you’re just trying to throw in parts and pieces of your
personality into your texts, but it might not be received as a simple
humorous gesture. It might make you come off snobby and rude.
Plus this can throw around some mixed signals, so until you’re
comfortable texting in a sarcastic, then try to be more straight
forward.
Seriously? Don’t be one of those girls who decide to break up with a
guy via text message. Have some courtesy and class to do it in person
or at the very least over the phone. This kind of news deserves to be
told in a more appropriate manner. Plus, breaking up with someone
over text can come off as, for lack of a better word, bi-t-chy. And at
the very least, if you do decide to break up with someone via text, DO
NOT make it a two worded text saying “it’s over.”
5. “Why Aren’t You Replying?!”
This comes off as SUPER clingy and somewhat creepy. Not everyone
has the time to talk to you every second of their day. Be considerate
and understand that maybe he’s just busy or isn’t in the mood to
text or talk. Nothing is more annoying that someone nagging about a
simple absence of a text. It’s also a huge turn off, considering the
fact that you seem kind of desperate. Just keep the clingy texting talk
to a minimum, and give him some space and allow yourself some
space.
4. Drunk Texts
If you’ve been under the influence, STAY AWAY FROM YOUR
PHONE. If you can’t text properly, don’t even attempt. This will
make you seem a little trashy for revealing your little party side and
you never know what you’re going to say. You could spill out some
words you will most likely regret the next day. Do yourself a favor
and do not let yourself look like an idiot. Have fun for the night and
leave the texting to the designated driver
3. Screen Shots of the Past
Sure, it can be cute and charming at times, but when you’re arguing
or with a text war with you guy, it is NOT okay to bring something
back from the past. Screen shots of texts from months ago or weeks
ago are not okay to keep a grudge on. If you’ve already had
confrontation about this stuff with your guy, then don’t bring it up
again as a way to leverage your new argument. Argue strictly what
is in the present, not what’s based on the past. Opening up new
wounds as a way of attack shouldn’t be your method. Be more
constructive and try to fix the ACTUAL problem, not the ones you’re
trying to manipulate.
2. “Is There Another Girl?”
This is another way to look clingy and somewhat crazy. Avoid it at
all cost, don’t try and pull a pity party for yourself especially if
you’re just looking to stir trouble. Plus if you do have insecurities
and concerns about there being another girl, do it in person.
Confronting them in person doesn’t allow them the time to come up
with something clever to say or to come up with a solid lie. Doing
this in person allows him to react enough for you to really know
what’s going on. But if you’re just trying to build your insecurities
with this method, trust me, it’ll come off as scary and clingy. DO
NOT DO IT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE.
1. Sarcastic Comments.
If you aren’t comfortable enough with a guy yet, try and avoid
sarcastic comments that can come off as rude. I’m not saying don’t
do it at all cost, but if a text seems a bit iffy, don’t do it. I totally
get it if you’re just trying to throw in parts and pieces of your
personality into your texts, but it might not be received as a simple
humorous gesture. It might make you come off snobby and rude.
Plus this can throw around some mixed signals, so until you’re
comfortable texting in a sarcastic, then try to be more straight
forward.
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