5 Things You Should Never Do To Your Partner

 

Have you ever reasoned out that our actions, little as it could be or seem sometimes, could actually be our greatest undoing and the cause for everlasting regret?

Do you aspire to live happily ever after with that Romeo or Julliet of yours?

Here are five (5) things you never should do to your partner to enjoy a blissful and peaceful marital sojourn.

Comparing Your Partner With Someone Else

It is never a good or brilliant idea to compare your partner with

another person. Whether for fun sake, complimentary sake, derisory

sake or spiteful sake, it doesn't always go down well with the

significant other and it doesn't end well as well, too. If anything, it

creates an impression of your partner being inadequate and it's nothing

but a recipe for emotional demarcation and a drifting connection. Just

so you know, a negative comparison with your ex (probably how he buys

you islands, jets, Egyptian hair, Mexican shirts or how sweet her voice

is, etc) is simply a good way to worsen your relationship; and next

time you experience such urge, bite your tongue (real hard) for 10

seconds.

Constant Lies

Lies are never welcome guests in a relationship. They only breed

distrust, hurt and irritation. Seriously, the way some lie, even the

devil would be forced to marvel. Building a relationship on the

foundation of lies; moulding and patching it with lies, would only end

up crumbling on lies and probably crushing a life.

Being An Irritable Source Of Nagging

Every person looks towards his/her partner as a source of happiness

when sad, comfort when distressed, calm when angry, encouragement

when down, and smile when stressed up. However, no one enjoys being

in the presence of someone who nags one like (s)he is under the

influence of some territorial powers. Frustrating the life out of your

partner is a liberal invitation for emotional distantness and eventual

separation.

Showing Your Partner Little or No Respect

Respect for your partner here doesn't imply reverencing him/her like:

His royal majesty or Her royal highness, etc. It means giving him/

her regard by not doing the things that (s)he detest.

Badmouthing Him/Her To Others

Involving a third, fourth or hundredth party in your relationship

should always be done with caution and prudence. The 'who' to tell and

'what' to say could make or mar your relationship. However,

constantly badmouthing and negatively painting your partner bad to

outsiders not only hurt your partner when they have the knowlegde of

your action and words but ultimately sacrifices the relationship on the

alter of unwise behaviour. If, as a matter of fact, you discover that

you can't just break the habit or you seem to derive some pleasure from

this, you might need more than a deliverance, you need a total

overhauling.

If you've been engaged in any of the above or have a contrary opinion,

kindly share your thoughts.